First post

Sooo... I don’t really want to share too much about myself, but here’s the situation: I’m autistic (I mention this because otherwise some things I do, say, or think might seem strange—and it’s also something that I feel mostly defines me). I was born in Hungary, and after living with my parents for 20 years, I immediately moved in with my girlfriend, who later became my wife. Five years ago, we moved to the UK. After 16 years together, my wife left me last Christmas for another man. She moved in with him last week, so for about a week now I’ve been living alone—for the first time in my life. This blog is about me trying to deal with that, and about figuring out who I am and what makes me happy—because for the last 16 years, I was focused only on what made her happy.